How to Calm An Angry Child

Introducing the Its Pure Magic Online Workshop

You can actually calm an angry child in less time than the usual argument takes. Watch this video as I explain and demonstrate the basic technique.

In Seven Video Classes, You Will Master How To:

  • Calm an angry child or teenager in 90 seconds or less
  • Listen to your spouse in a way that will transform your marriage
  • Create a deep, empathic connection with your lover
  • Remain present and calm no matter what you elderly parent says to you
  • Create real, sustainable peace in your family, your work, and your community
  • Live a centered, calm, empowered life regardless of the drama around you

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Here's what some of my live attendees have to say about the course.

"Your presentation is the single most powerful, actionable, and supported teaching I have experienced.  Thank you so much for sharing your insights."

- Laura K.

I also have to share that your course content has already been so instrumental.  I’ve been test driving a lot of techniques with great results.

Generally speaking, some courses we take just stand out as a huge value added professionally and personally.   Your program has definitely been one of those.  Everything I’ve learned, plus the added benefit of having the opportunity to meet you, has made this such a rewarding experience.

Thanks again for everything.

- Mark L.

“Thank you, thank you, thank you for teaching us about affect labeling.  My husband, a physician, helped me with some of Lieberman's articles last night. And, despite your cautions, we practiced on  each other.  After being married for over 25 years, we learned things about each other! “


What Makes Its Pure Magic Different and Special

In this online course, I teach you two foundational skills. The first is how to find and state the core message of your child or teen. The core message is often much deeper than what the words convey. Often, children don't really know what they feel or say and just act out. The second is how to read your child's emotional data field and respond by simply stating his or her emotional experience in the moment. Neuroscientist Matthew Lieberman calls this "affect labeling." His groundbreaking research validated a skill I had developed in my peacemaking practice and gave me deep insights into listening.

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Learn with a Trusted Friend.

The best way to master this radical new listening skill is with a trusted friend. Some are reporting to me that they took the course with a teenager and were astounded at the positive change in their relationship. There are 7 video lectures and a 25 page workbook. You can complete the course and begin a new life of tranquility. Of course, mastery takes practice over time. However, if you apply a small amount of effort, you will see huge changes around you.

'Our Asperger grandson flew into a rage last week because his sister appeared to “get credit” for a comment the two of them made at the same time. Linda had listened closely to my description of your teaching and she said to our grandson, “You feel you haven’t been listened to.” He immediately affirmed her statement and then she said, “That makes you feel bad.” Within 10 seconds, the micro-intervention you taught us restored calm and reduced a normally escalating set of circumstances into a calm that might otherwise have taken hours to achieve. Thanks!'

  • 7 video classes, 15-27 minutes each

  • Downloadable workbook with exercises to help you refine your skills

  • View on your tablet, smart phone, desktop, or laptop

  • Simple, Actionable Steps

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No kidding! Only $249.00. It will the best investment you ever made in you child. This information is so powerful that I want every person to learn the skills. There are no hidden charges, subscriptions, up-sells, or other gimmicks. Questions? Contact me directly at doug at

Proceeds from It's Pure Magic support the Prison of Peace project.